Love Stories: My take

I just read a fwded story titled "Will she be mine?". Obviously the answer would be yes and that is the end of the story. Every story will be having a happy ending and that is the only reason these are called STORIES and not REALITY. In this story the hero first loves a girl and does everything to impress her. Later he proposes her and she agrees. Everything is in sync with reality but the response from the girl's end is totally assumed one. The way girls think is still a mysterious thing. As far as I know every person thinks in two ways one is logical way which thinks about all the possibilities and decides the best option based on less loss method, another way of thinking is emotional way which also thinks about all the possibilities and chooses the best option which hurts less. This is based on less hurt method. And when this bloody love happens people tend to lose their logical thinking power. But when the time comes for proposing guys will think about possible responses and reactions they can expect from the girl. But 999 times out of 1000 times the reaction will be something different from what all the reactions the guy had thought of. If the girl says yes or no then it is fine but lot of strings will be attached with their reactions. Like she had never expected this from me, she is not yet ready for committing, she wants to concentrate on her career, she thinks me like a brother.... and all those stuff. the only thing I am stressing here is when a guy is liking a girl then the girl will come to know this thing in the very early stage of their so called friendship only and if the girl is not liking the guy then she could indirectly tell him her intensions in the initial stages only, why would she wait till he starts thinking her as an integral part of himself and then rejects his proposal? Or is that the way guys think is wrong. There are cases where the guy likes a girl and girl likes the guy. But both of them never dares to tell each other thinking about all possibilities and fearing to face them in reality. eventually girl will get married to some NRI and the guy will be evaluating the mistakes he committed in letting her go, there are cases where the girl will be pressurized to get married but girl believes only in love marriages, at this point of time if any guy proposes her the probability of she agreeing is more, in some other cases the girl will be new to some place and will be away from parents and lonely. At this point of time the chances for a guy to become close to her is very much. We can write a reality byte based on any of these single cases. Still people choose to read and write same old happy ending stories. I agree there are happy ending cases but very rare. Even if girl agrees, the couple will face lot of problems in family circle and friends circle and ultimately very less number of couples succeeds in marrying and staying together. My question is why people almost sacrifice themselves in achieving true love when the success rate is very low. There are some things which I never understand.